Do you ever wonder how your childhood and family dynamics shaped the way you love? This episode invites you to explore the art of love languages with our guest, Paul Zolman. Paul is a love language linguist in the financial industry with an inspiring journey. Paul shares his story from his humble beginnings in Montana, his family dynamics, and the trials he navigated through to the man he has become today. Listen in as we unravel Paul’s experiences and discover how they influenced his outlook on love and relationships.

In this heartfelt conversation, we dive into Paul’s unique approach – destination dating, his dedication towards understanding and practicing love languages, and the ways he has chosen to spread love around him by preserving childhood innocence. You’ll hear about the dice game based on love languages, a creation of Paul’s, and his book, which has made international waves. We also discuss the power of the word ‘namaste’ and its potential to remind us to seek the divine in others. The art of love languages helps us connect with and deepen relationship with others in life.

To wrap things up, we reflect on how Paul’s past experiences have left their mark on his relationships and shaped his views on love. Paul opens up about his struggles, his personal growth, and his commitment to being a better person and father. It’s a truly heartwarming conversation that offers valuable insights into love languages, personal growth, and family dynamics. Embark on this emotional journey with us and come out with a deeper understanding of love languages and their impact on relationships. Remember, language is not merely a tool for communication, but a bridge to deeper connection and understanding.

The Art of Love Languages

(0:00:02) – Love Languages and Childhood Memories

Paul Zolman shares his Montana upbringing, love language dice creation, and international bestseller book.

(0:06:11) – Family Dynamics and Resolving Conflict

My family’s history has shaped me, from love to strength, impacting my present and future.

(0:13:57) – Childhood Abuse’s Impact on Personal Growth

I overcame abuse to build a strong relationship with my parents through 32 years of letter writing.

(0:21:11) – Generational Struggles and Personal Growth

My upbringing, a cappella group, and first marriage impacted my relationships with family and friends.

(0:26:46) – Destination Dating and Love Languages

I studied the five love languages to build meaningful relationships, and spent $10,000 on destination dates before settling in Phoenix.

(0:41:11) – Love Languages and Spreading Love

Identifying and using love languages to benefit relationships, teaching children how to express love, and putting love into action.

(0:54:03) – Preserving Childhood Innocence and Spreading Love

Todd and I discuss incentivizing journaling, inspiring children to be loving, and using ‘namaste’ to remind us of the divine.

(1:01:27) – Interview With Paul Zolman

Todd and Paul discuss love languages, preserving the innocence and joy of children, and Paul’s experiences with family and friends.

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About The Host

Todd Murat, Host of The ToddCast Show - Wednesday Mornings At Midnight PST and 3am EST

Todd Murat

ToddCast Show Founder and Host, Todd Murat created this podcast to showcase the discovery and interaction of complete strangers for the purpose of learning and realizing we have much more in common than that which separates us.